Monday, November 30, 2015

The Sacred Search by Gary Thomas


Well, my reading list is so long, because it does not take much for me to throw another book in the mix quickly, and I have to follow where I am led....

So, I was surfing the internet, and I ran across an article about marriage by Gary Thomas, and I enjoyed the article so much until I just had to give the book a try. Last week I downloaded the book and read it over the Thanksgiving holiday. (One of the many bonuses of having time off for holidays is lots of free time to read.)

This book proposes that “A good marriage is the closest two people will ever come to heaven this side of eternity, and a bad marriage is the closest two people in an affluent society will ever come to hell.”

Gary states that many people are led by their emotions; the feelings that we feel when we first meet a person. However, he proposes that we must be led by more than our emotions. Gary states that we may consider being more concerned with whether or not a potential mate is a humble person, is able to forgive, handles conflict in a healthy manner, communicates, prays, and makes and keeps friends, and I must add that we can not expect our partners to be all of these things, and we not strive to have these same qualities ourselves. He goes on to say that “A Good Marriage isn’t something you find, it’s something you make.” And, I think that this can be applied to all of our relationships: romantic and non-romantic; they must be cultivated.

I know that this is a clichĂ© that we hear over and over, and it seems quite corny, but Gary states that we should “First seek the kingdom...” and you know the rest.

I’ll keep this book with me at all times as I navigate my dating life; it’s my new handbook!!

If you want to be married, is already married, may want to start dating, is dating right now, confused about love, have given up on love, a hopeless romantic.... Then this is the book for you!

Happy Reading...

Even though I threw The Sacred Search in my reading mix, I instantly got back on my reading schedule, and I also finished The Red Tent during the holiday. (The blog will be coming soon!)

Well, I got an email about an event at Eatonville restaurant in DC on Sunday where there will be a discussion of Mule Bone by Langston Hughes and Zora Neale Hurston, and you know I could not miss an opportunity to read and discuss two of my favorite writers. So, I will diverge from my reading list to read Mule Bone, and I will start reading Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson next unless another book calls my name.


Reading really can become an addiction; try it!



2 comments:

Alicia said...

Thank you for recommending The Sacred Search. I agree. This book can be applied to both romantic and platonic relationships. The idea of examining one's character is always applicable. Thanks my friend. Read on!

Jacqueline said...

Yes, Yes, Yes, and AMEN! Happy to see you over here on The Big Sea....

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